<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3421718877020214542.post6171605431997301878..comments</id><updated>2010-06-10T19:40:27.238-04:00</updated><category term='listserv'/><category term='life-guarding'/><category term='technology'/><category term='reflections'/><category term='work-life-balance'/><category term='colleagues'/><category term='foundations'/><category term='participant work'/><category term='nexttime'/><category term='growth'/><category term='goals'/><category term='expedition'/><category term='Δ'/><category term='planning and preperation'/><category term='unchaperoned'/><category term='summer staff training'/><category term='networking'/><category term='conflict resolution'/><category term='creativity'/><category term='2-day'/><category term='facilitation'/><category term='urban'/><category term='challenges'/><category term='college student group'/><category term='feedback'/><category term='successes'/><category term='picture posts'/><category term='experiential education'/><category term='ilovemyjob'/><category term='high-ropes'/><category term='non-psp'/><category term='confrences'/><category term='improving-facilitation'/><category term='chaperoned'/><category term='psp'/><category term='delta'/><category term='on feedback'/><category term='+'/><category term='blogging'/><category term='high school students'/><category term='adult group'/><category term='de-issue'/><category term='campus'/><title type='text'>Comments on I Facilitate Experiential Education: 2: Relationships are important.</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.lindsayfeldman.com/feeds/6171605431997301878/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3421718877020214542/6171605431997301878/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lindsayfeldman.com/2010/06/2-relationships-are-important.html'/><author><name>Lindsay</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12878867755707023587</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_foFaxhnad2s/Sf99FQN5ckI/AAAAAAAADEQ/sq2hRIIaFgU/S220/DSCF2400.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3421718877020214542.post-8222120265779116755</id><published>2010-06-10T19:40:27.231-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-10T19:40:27.231-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I have been the reason for many rocky relationship...</title><content type='html'>I have been the reason for many rocky relationships at work, generally it was with my bosses. The struggles (as you so eloquently pointed out) must change your reactions. People will be angry with you, that is their view of things. When attempting to repair, focus on what you are doing and not the other person.&lt;br /&gt;Plus many problems at work are situational problems that we mistakeingly attribute to people.&lt;br /&gt;For example &amp;quot;she did not say good morning to me, she is a bad person&amp;quot; this is an attribution error. Perhaps she has to find a medic, just had a camper poop on the cabin floor, got no sleep last night, has to deal with a love camp situation, etc...&lt;br /&gt;She is not a bad person the situation is causing her to act that way.&lt;br /&gt;On work teams the situations happen and you many not even notice them.&lt;br /&gt;great post - Mike&lt;br /&gt;http://create-learning.com/blog</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3421718877020214542/6171605431997301878/comments/default/8222120265779116755'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3421718877020214542/6171605431997301878/comments/default/8222120265779116755'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lindsayfeldman.com/2010/06/2-relationships-are-important.html?showComment=1276213227231#c8222120265779116755' title=''/><author><name>Michael Cardus</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03905049257046481794</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='19' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_He4-dsgZs-8/SUpel9YBJBI/AAAAAAAAAOo/ZPd4hKGC_mo/S220/mike.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lindsayfeldman.com/2010/06/2-relationships-are-important.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3421718877020214542.post-6171605431997301878' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3421718877020214542/posts/default/6171605431997301878' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-164699390'/></entry></feed>
